Where you want to be

don't take advice from someone who isn't where you want to be.

if you want to know what it takes to be a successful photographer, ask a successful photographer.

if you want to know what it takes to be a good doctor, ask a good doctor.

if you want to know what it takes to be a great writer, ask a great writer.

if you want to know what it takes to have a happy marriage, ask someone who has a happy marriage.

if you want to know what it takes to be rich, ask someone rich.

luckily, the rich write books on how they got to where they are.